Are you embarking on the journey of finding your soulmate, entering the intricate world of the “shidduch parsha”? Perhaps you seek guidance on how to prioritize what truly matters to you or develop the right mindset for this significant endeavor? Or maybe you’ve been dating for a while and discovered that this stage is far more challenging than you initially anticipated. Have you encountered roadblocks while dating or noticed potential red flags during your engagement?

Having personally experienced a nearly 7-year dating journey before gratefully finding my Bashert (B”H), I genuinely empathize with the frustrations that come with a prolonged search for one’s soulmate. Throughout the years, I’ve had the privilege of assisting friends, relatives, and community members by offering advice at various stages—whether it’s prior to dating, during the shidduch process, in-between shidduchim, or when challenges arise while engaged.

The obstacles faced during this journey can be diverse and nuanced, encompassing both external and internal factors. They may include issues with communication, compatibility, ideals, commitment, societal or familial expectations, and many more. By developing the right mindset and discerning between internal and external challenges, legitimate red flags and those that aren’t, and analyzing what has and hasn’t worked in the past, we can overcome previous obstacles and stay focused on the ultimate goal of finding and marrying our bashert.

I eagerly anticipate the opportunity to work with you, guiding you through this challenging yet profoundly meaningful period in your life. Together, we can navigate the complexities of the shidduch process, address obstacles head-on, and keep your focus unwavering as you seek and embrace the destined union with your bashert.