Marriage / Shiduchim Support

Areas of Focus

  • Communication: Helping couples to improve their communication skills, such as listening actively, expressing feelings, and resolving conflict.
  • Problem-solving: Helping couples to develop effective problem-solving skills, such as identifying the problem, brainstorming solutions, and implementing a solution.
  • Conflict resolution: Helping couples to resolve conflict in a healthy way, such as by listening to each other's perspective, expressing feelings, and finding a compromise.
  • Connection: Helping couples to increase their connection with each other such as by spending time together, expressing affection, and tapping into the areas of affection that each spouse appreciates
  • Commitment: Helping couples to strengthen their commitment to each other, such as by discussing their values, goals, and expectations for the future.
  • Adjusting to your first year of marriage

This is a general list and areas will vary depending on the specific needs of your relationship.

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In a world where the strains of everyday life can test even the strongest marriages, finding a way to navigate through the challenges becomes paramount. I understand the complexities of relationships while sifting through the intricacies of human emotions.

 

No one desires constant arguments or a strained relationship, yet the reality is that even the most loving and remarkable marriages can encounter rough patches. Balancing the demands of raising children, managing finances, and facing health issues can take its toll on any couple. During these trying times, it can be tempting to sweep the problems under the rug, but I firmly believes that open communication in the right setting and with the right tools is the key to resolving issues.

 

With a wealth of experience gained from working with congregants and community members, I bring a unique blend of demonstrated, time-tested marriage principles and timeless Torah values to my coaching approach. Together, we will work create an environment that fosters emotional openness, conflict resolution, and the cultivation of genuine affection and respect between partners.

Shidduch Support

Areas of Focus

  • Developing the right mindset, including how you view yourself during the dating stage
  • How to prioritize what is important to you in a prospective spouse
  • Pre-date preparation and post-date review
  • How to proceed when a shidduch seems promising and when/how to get engaged
  • Discussing the engagement period and navigating the challenges should they arise

This is a general list and areas will vary depending on the specific needs of your relationship.

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Are you embarking on the journey of finding your soulmate, entering the intricate world of the “shidduch parsha”? Perhaps you seek guidance on how to prioritize what truly matters to you or develop the right mindset for this significant endeavor? Or maybe you’ve been dating for a while and discovered that this stage is far more challenging than you initially anticipated. Have you encountered roadblocks while dating or noticed potential red flags during your engagement?

 

Having personally experienced a nearly 7-year dating journey before gratefully finding my Bashert (B”H), I genuinely empathize with the frustrations that come with a prolonged search for one’s soulmate. Throughout the years, I’ve had the privilege of assisting friends, relatives, and community members by offering advice at various stages—whether it’s prior to dating, during the shidduch process, in-between shidduchim, or when challenges arise while engaged.

The obstacles faced during this journey can be diverse and nuanced, encompassing both external and internal factors. They may include issues with communication, compatibility, ideals, commitment, societal or familial expectations, and many more. By developing the right mindset and discerning between internal and external challenges, legitimate red flags and those that aren’t, and analyzing what has and hasn’t worked in the past, we can overcome previous obstacles and stay focused on the ultimate goal of finding and marrying our bashert.

I eagerly anticipate the opportunity to work with you, guiding you through this challenging yet profoundly meaningful period in your life. Together, we can navigate the complexities of the shidduch process, address obstacles head-on, and keep your focus unwavering as you seek and embrace the destined union with your bashert.